Why not kill two birds with one stone and have your dance floor filled (temporarily, at least) and a "safer" alternative to tossing the bouquet (especially handy if you're not feeling your aim will be great)? Have the DJ or master of ceremonies call all the married couples out on the dance floor. As he calls out how many years they've been married, in incriments of 5, those who haven't been married past a certain amount of time sits down. The couple who's been married the longest gets handed the bride's bouquet and they get to share words of wisdom or tips they've learned over their years of marriage. Also, it's a sweet way to honor the longevity of their marriage.